Bulls Shirt

Every November my husband, Chuck, and our oldest daughter, Rachel, go to a Bulls game together. They always have a great time and something crazy, lucky always happens while they are there.

The first time they went, the cheerleaders pulled Rachel out on the floor to dance with them during the half-time show.

This year Rachel and Kate were looking around at the souvenir shops when Rachel found a pink Bulls jersey that she liked. Chuck asked the vendor the cost and was told it was $50. That's more than we would typically spend on a souvenir. Plus, this year money is tight and so it was really out of the question. Rachel knew that and as soon as the vendor said the cost, she moved to put the shirt down.

My daughters have always been good about accepting when they are or are not getting a treat. Sure there were a few disappointed, tear filled moments when they were really little, but as a rule, they know that they live great lives with lots of great opportunities and when we say no to something, they accept that answer.

But here's the amazing thing that happened at the Bull's game that day. A man who was shopping said that he'd buy Rachel the shirt. A complete stranger. Chuck protested, but the man was insistent. He was making a lot of purchases and said that one more item wouldn't matter and he added it to his bill. Rachel said thank you and left with a new pink Bulls jersey.

I was totally surprised when they got home and told me the story. But, then I got to thinking, we live in a great world. When I think of all the times I've seen or experienced selfless acts of giving like this, I'm overwhelmed by the generosity in the world.

I'm sure I could sit and think of plenty of examples of times when people were selfish or mean; but I'm going to just make note of the great times. The times when people come together to love and support one another. When we give gifts and offer love. I will celebrate the selflessness and goodness and acknowledge generosity when I see it. I will ignore the petty and selfish acts.

Well, maybe ignore is too strong of a word. I will probably notice and comment. But, then I'll let it go.